Happiness is a state of mind and not related to material possessions , fame or family environment. Being happy is a matter of choice and requires attitude of happiness irrespective of circumstances. Don’t change this attitude by being affected by people surrounding you who if not happy want to drag you into unhappy attitude.If you can’t please somebody by your action you feel right, don’t let it affect your happiness. You can’t please everybody in life. Be happy , smile abundantly and spread this happiness around. If this happiness isn’t able to reach someone , don’t let it bother you.