Get all your facts gather before making assumptions.

People judge you with the first story. Everything happens for a reason. No one on earth has the right to judge anyone else, it's God's job.

I'm very honest when it comes to the truth. People just don't like the truth when I confront them with. If I made the mistake, I would hold myself responsible. ~  Eric Cruz 

Don't worry about what people are saying behind your back about how you handle your grief because it is none of your business.