Most people won't be able to understand you anyway.

No is a complete sentence! Explaining puts you in a defensive position, weakening it.

It feels so good, when you actually muster up the courage. You might lose a friend but, if that's the case, you don't need friends like that. ~ Val Blowman 

Be yourself. Some people don't need an explanation, because they know how beautiful you are. ~ Mustafa Alam