Month: December 2020

Positive Thoughts Wisdom

Say no without explaining yourself

Most people won’t be able to understand you anyway. No is a complete sentence! Explaining puts you in a defensive position, weakening it.   It feels so good, when you actually muster up the courage. You might lose a friend but, if that’s the case, you don’t need friends like that. …
Relationship Trust

All of us get broken in some way

Once you do put yourself back together and realize the power was yours to do so all along. How sweet it is! ~ Patrick Ramirez  We have just one life. We must put back together . Sense of humor and music play magical gum in that process. It’s not what happens …
Feelings Lesson Learned Mistakes

Life is about finding special people

Time heals and experience teaches that the secret of happiness is in service to others. ~ Feyza Kondu    Certain people may never change. Pray for patience, tolerance and acceptance.   Trust is something that is earned, people can say trust me and once you let your guard down they take …
Inspiration People

When you start seeing your worth

Why please others if they didn’t know your worth. Move on!   Better live alone than suffer everyday with someone who is not worth your attention.   The problem is that during your working years, much of your temperament is based on what kind of boss you work for. I …
Love Respect

Don’t lose your dignity & self respect for others

All my life (now 50) I searched for approval from everyone. I actually wasted time. Love yourself , walk tall and take it all easy. ~ Helen Bolon    Some people just think tomorrow will always be available to them. Thus, thinking the person they push away, and hurt in the …