Majority of the people are fond of showing their strength and might . This strengthens their self ego and self importance. But this is not the way to win the heart of people. Fight reciprocated by fight adds fuel to the fire and is never a solution. If you want to conquer heart of somebody who comes out fighting hell bent on breaking you down , respond it with calmness and serenity and peace. The fighting attitude shall die down and the fighter will have to think with a new perspective. The ability to remain calm in spite of provocations lends clarity to the mind and solutions are easy to find.