Be the one who appreciates, and does all these things for others.
Letting go of someone who fits the description above is loving yourself enough to put yourself first in a healthy way.
I did let go too. God showed me true colors of my past best friend. She used, controlled, manipulated me. I have a weight problem and she was embarrassed to be seen with me, and yet she needed me to take her places and I was her ATM machine and she had some mean, disprespectful things to me. The one thing that she said was now it is on my terms. What kind of a friend says that to you. She emotionally, mentally and verbally abused me and had showed no remorse at all. Has turned people against me. It took a while to heal and now I have control over my life again and I am much happier and it was a 20 year friendship. God closed the door and opened a new door and I thank God for that. I am free. I had to let go, walk away and I am so glad that I did. Just wanted to share my story. ~ Sharon Diedrich